Hello !
Well today I'll write about being the new kid ... Well everybody (or most of us) heve been at least for one time ''the new kid" and well ... that's really dissapointing ... Personally I've changed school a lot of times (when I was 2 ,5 , 10 , 12 and now at 14 ,) and I've always made friends (although my best friend I meet her at elementary school and we are still talking) anyway but now I'm going 9th grade and at this age the other kids are not as friendly as they used to be the previous times so now is a little bit despressing thinking that you wont know noone and you wont made any friends cauz everybody has made his own BFF.
Well we may said a lot of times "I wanna change school" or something like that cayz we can't stand somestupid classmates and teachers ... but seriously now if you had the chance , would you change school?NO... well but now I'm talking about those kids who must change school for their parents work or something like that
First of all I am talking to you guys , when you see for example a new student sitting alone , don't know anyone just go talk to them ... it's not that hard .... if you don't like them ok in few days he/she 'll made some others friends and everything will be fine...
And now ... if you are ''the new kid" as I'm gonna be here are some advices that will may help you:
1) Be yourself. You don't have to act like a crazy diva only cayz you want the popular kids notice you ... in the end you're gonna be the ''fake loser''
2) Don't be shy ... ok that's something really important but if you are like me it's something like ... impossiple ...just give a try
3) When you go to class do not sit in the end if you want to be noticed . In the end "the student's I wanna work at mc donalts when I grow up" in the front ''the students I'm sooo smart" and in the middle .... well you know...you get te point ... I suggest you to sit somewhere like ... in the middle cauz that gonna make other believe that you're not the shy one and you are the socializable type
4)For example at the lab don't be afraid to go to someone and say "Hey ... I'm new here do you wanna be my partener?" or in the halls just ask someone that you like -as friend always- "I'm new here and I'm a little confused can you help me find the spanish class please?" It works
5)Smile( ok with some limits the smile) and be kind (but watch out don't be a slave some people misandersood or even worst exploit your kindness) Just sufffice to ''please'' and "thanks"
6)The firstimpression is really important so you just have to be perfect! High school students are really ... judgemental?? or something like that....so at first the previous night sleep at least 8 hours cauz you don't have to hide all these black bags under your eyes . Now the morning just take a bath and were the perfect clothes...something simple and casual but still perfecet .. then make your hair and the last think is makeup ..don't put a lot ... just a little.... Personally I prefer the real me than the "clown" me
7)If you want just join aclb or a team ... for example if you like sportss go to sports ... well my mom wants to put me to a sport team although I hate sports ...but I love volleyball...only volley! So I'm gonna join a volley team ... so then I'm gonna be sorrounded by girls in the same age with the same interests so in there I might find my future BFF ... so that you should also do!
8) Internet....without that you're gonna be social dead....yeap...(facebook if you know...)
9) Don't flirt with anyone you see standing in front of you cayz then you've made a reservation for a flight (a class) to the hell
Well...these was my advices ... cauz spill by mistake your water (BY MISTAKE) to the hot guy you just meet does not always works....
I hope I help you cauz in 10 days school is starting and although I look ... confident I'm totally freaking out....I AM FREACKING OUT!!
I hope I helped you-although I don't help me at all.... :'(
Lot of kisses
~A girl who isfreacking ouut with the name Katia~
Well today I'll write about being the new kid ... Well everybody (or most of us) heve been at least for one time ''the new kid" and well ... that's really dissapointing ... Personally I've changed school a lot of times (when I was 2 ,5 , 10 , 12 and now at 14 ,) and I've always made friends (although my best friend I meet her at elementary school and we are still talking) anyway but now I'm going 9th grade and at this age the other kids are not as friendly as they used to be the previous times so now is a little bit despressing thinking that you wont know noone and you wont made any friends cauz everybody has made his own BFF.
First of all I am talking to you guys , when you see for example a new student sitting alone , don't know anyone just go talk to them ... it's not that hard .... if you don't like them ok in few days he/she 'll made some others friends and everything will be fine...
And now ... if you are ''the new kid" as I'm gonna be here are some advices that will may help you:
1) Be yourself. You don't have to act like a crazy diva only cayz you want the popular kids notice you ... in the end you're gonna be the ''fake loser''
2) Don't be shy ... ok that's something really important but if you are like me it's something like ... impossiple ...just give a try
3) When you go to class do not sit in the end if you want to be noticed . In the end "the student's I wanna work at mc donalts when I grow up" in the front ''the students I'm sooo smart" and in the middle .... well you know...you get te point ... I suggest you to sit somewhere like ... in the middle cauz that gonna make other believe that you're not the shy one and you are the socializable type
4)For example at the lab don't be afraid to go to someone and say "Hey ... I'm new here do you wanna be my partener?" or in the halls just ask someone that you like -as friend always- "I'm new here and I'm a little confused can you help me find the spanish class please?" It works
5)Smile( ok with some limits the smile) and be kind (but watch out don't be a slave some people misandersood or even worst exploit your kindness) Just sufffice to ''please'' and "thanks"
6)The firstimpression is really important so you just have to be perfect! High school students are really ... judgemental?? or something like that....so at first the previous night sleep at least 8 hours cauz you don't have to hide all these black bags under your eyes . Now the morning just take a bath and were the perfect clothes...something simple and casual but still perfecet .. then make your hair and the last think is makeup ..don't put a lot ... just a little.... Personally I prefer the real me than the "clown" me
7)If you want just join aclb or a team ... for example if you like sportss go to sports ... well my mom wants to put me to a sport team although I hate sports ...but I love volleyball...only volley! So I'm gonna join a volley team ... so then I'm gonna be sorrounded by girls in the same age with the same interests so in there I might find my future BFF ... so that you should also do!
8) Internet....without that you're gonna be social dead....yeap...(facebook if you know...)
9) Don't flirt with anyone you see standing in front of you cayz then you've made a reservation for a flight (a class) to the hell
Well...these was my advices ... cauz spill by mistake your water (BY MISTAKE) to the hot guy you just meet does not always works....
I hope I help you cauz in 10 days school is starting and although I look ... confident I'm totally freaking out....I AM FREACKING OUT!!
I hope I helped you-although I don't help me at all.... :'(
Lot of kisses
~A girl who isfreacking ouut with the name Katia~
